Adopting an older child brings educational challenges.  Many older children have gaps in their learning. They may have attended school but not on a regular basis.  For most children, they have the ability to learn but it will take time to catch up with their peers.

It is wise to consider your educational options before bringing your child home.  Talk to principals, ESL teachers, and classroom teachers to find the best placement for your child.  Many parents decide that working with their child at home is best for them.  Some parents plan to home school but several months later, decide that a private or public school setting is needed.  There is no wrong or right way.  You may have one plan before your child comes home and then you find it isn’t working.  Flexibility is important to discovering what is best for your child.

Tutors can also be helpful.  A tutor can often take the stress off of you.  You want to focus on attachment and becoming a family.  If possible, it is nice to have someone help support you with schoolwork.

I always suggest delaying school.  There is always going to be time for school.  You want your beginning months to focus on your family.  Sometimes children ask to begin school.  Try to delay school, attaching to mom and dad are what is important.  It is okay to have educational activities for them.  You can play games and read, there are so many ways for children to learn.

Check out this website http://everythingesl.com/ You may find helpful information as you plan your child’s school activities.

I am available for you if you need me!  Kathy Killough